question, my parents dont agreee with the salafi or have anything to do with it. my brother died 2 years ago in a fatal car accident and my mother visits the graveyard 3 times a day since he has passed away.she is totally obssesed and wenever i tell my mother maybe to cut down on her going there she replies back to "well wenever one of ur child dies heaven forbid we shall see how u feel and wot u will do in that situation" my brother was the eldest he was also the favourite out of us siblings shall i let my mother contiune? my dad tells her dont go that often but, she ignores my dad and goes anyways. HELP wot should i do ????