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Topic: Female-Cousin Relationship?
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 AbooZakee
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Assalamualaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatu,
There has been a great issue that has been hurting me for the longest i need some clearification or some advice regarding this. Inshallah. My husband and i where not born muslim but allhamdullilah we are practicing salafiya. My husband's mother, sister, and cousins are non muslims. My husband feels obligated to have a best friend relationship with his sister even though she is non muslim, i sometimes hear my husband say things around her that are not appropriate to say. I approach him many times and remind him that we are not of them, he gets upset at me and tells me to deal with the fact that him and his sister are always going to talk no matter what. Well i have a second issue, His female non muslim cousin which he grew up with moved to the same city we live in and she constantly calls him to come visit her. If he does not visit her she calls him yelling at him saying why havent you come vist me. it really bothers me because i know that his is not the sunnah. She doesnt even talk to me she only calls to talk to him.He again feels obligated to visit her. Inshallah i really need some advice regarding this.
Jazakum allahu Khairan
Salamualaikum
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| AbooZakee
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As Salaam 'Alaykum,
A reminder, if anyone is able to find out about this question....
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Sent: Tuesday, September 02, 2003 2:36 PM
Subject: Fwd: Re: question
assalamuailaikum
can you please notify me when this will be posted and where i can find it. inshallah
jazakum allahu khairan
asalamualaikum
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| AbooZakee
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As Salaam 'Alaykum,
I'm sorry, there has been no response as of yet.
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From: XXXXXX
To: info@troid.org
Sent: Wednesday, September 10, 2003 12:51 AM
Subject: Salam
Salaam,
Did you get the mail in which i gave you permission to post my concern? What is the response of the scholars? Jazak Allahu Khair
Sister in Islam
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| faruq.as-salafi
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As-Salaamu' Alaikum wa'Rahma tu'Llah,
My nasihah, if it can help, is to call on of the salafi da'wah centers (Darul-Hadithi wa Athar or Troid). Insha-Allah, they can post the question to one of the ulamah to get specific advices regarding your issue. You may want to specify to the 'alim from the 'ulamah as-salafiyoon when you ask the question, or request that one of the arabic speaking brothers translates the question, what statements he makes to his sister that are not appropriate so that the 'alim can give the best answer insha-Allah. Be patient with your husband and advise him with the book of Allah and the Sunnahti Rasul (alayhe salaatu'wa salaam). To Allah we return all of our affairs.
Darul-Hadith (215)471-0913
Troid- 1(416)243-5320
Baarak-Allaahu Feekum - wa sal-Allaahu wa-sallam 'alaa Nabiyyinaa Muhammad,
was-Salaam 'alaykum wa-Rahmatullaahe wa-Barakaatuh.
Abu' Salafia'tayn Faruq Al-Fauzani Rabee'us-Sunnah As-Salafi 'ibn Saja Huie As-Salafiyyah
-From As-Salafiyoon in Columbus-
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