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24-10-2008 @ 3:54 AM    Notify Admin about this post
Aboo 'abdil-Wahhaab Haaroon ibn Rasheed (Leeds, UK)
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Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu

Im in need of some evidence to present to some members of my family with regards to the age at which one should begin giving the correct islaamic tarbiyyah to children, and the correct age for boys to begin observing segregation from non-related females.

JazaakumAllaahu khayran

"Indeed in the Messenger of Allaah you have a beautiful example to follow for him who hopes for (the Meeeting with) Allaah and the Last Day, and remembers Allaah much." (Soorah Al-Ahzaab:V21)

24-10-2008 @ 11:38 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Umm Muhammad Jameelah Iman Muhammad bint Vasquez (North America)
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As Salaamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh

InshaAllah this will help.....

Taken from the book: Islamic Fataawa Regarding The Muslim Child
Compiled By: Yahya Ibn Sa'eed Aale Shalwaan
Translation And Footnotes By: Abu Ziyaad Ibn Mahmood Abdul-Ghafoor
Pgs. 192-193

Free Mixing In Schools

Fatwa 121:
All praise be to Allaah and may blessings and peace be upon His Messenger ...To commence: I have read the article written by some journalists in the magazine "Al-Jazeerah" edition number: 3754 dated: 15/4/1403, according to the Hijri calendar, in which the free mixing of the sexes was suggested at the elementary school level. Due to the detrimental consequences of this suggestion, I see fit to warn against it, so I say: Free mixing is a medium that leads to much evil and corruption, so its practice is not permissible. The Prophet (sallAllahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said:

     "Order your children to perform the prayer at seven
      years, spank them over it at ten and separate between them
      in the beds"

The Prophet (sallAllahu 'alayhi wa sallam) ordered that they be separated between in their beds because their proximity to each other at the age of ten years or more can be a cause of the occurrence of indecent sexual acts due to free mixing. No doubt, their gathering every day whilst they are in the elementary school level is also a cause of this, just as it is means for their free mixing in the remaining levels of education. Under all circumstances the free mixing of boys and girls at this level is evil and not permissible due to it leading to various types of immorality. The perfect Sharee'ah has obligated the forbidding of the means that lead to Shirk and disobedience. Much evidence from the Verses of the Qur'aan and Ahaadeeth have indicated towards this principle, if it were not for lengthiness I would have mentioned many of them. The great scholar Ibn al-Qayyim, may Allaah have mercy upon him mentioned ninety-nine pieces of evidence indicating towards this principle in his book (E'laam al-Muwaqqi'een). My advice to these journalists and others is not to suggest matters that open the doors of evil upon the Muslims that have been closed. We ask Allaah for guidance and success for all. It is sufficient for the sound minded to see what has occurred of immense immorality in the countries that have legalised free mixing.

                                                        Sheikh Ibn Baaz.
                       [Majmu' Fataawa wa Maqaalaat Mutanawwi'ah: 5/234]

Was Salaam,
Jameelah Iman Muhammad bint Vasquez

Allaah The Exalted Says:
"And seek help in patience and As-Salat and truly, it is extremely heavy and hard except for Al-Khashi'un." Surah al-Baqarah:45

09-12-2008 @ 6:25 PM    Notify Admin about this post
abu safiyyah Isa bin patrick loney (leeds, london)
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Assalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

I hope you find the following Article useful


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