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24-09-2009 @ 1:19 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Abu Fatimah al engleezi (sheffield; United Kingdom)
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assalamu alaykum

My grandmother is dying from breast cancer and she emailed my father to say she feels death is approaching. She lives in south africa so its not possible for me to visit her however she is still able to check emails so i wanted to invite her to islam and i wanted to know if anyone has links to goos sites that do not involve refutations and are more about what comes after death andsomething to make her feel ccomforted that if she takes shahada at this late stage, inshallah she will get paradise in the next life and so she has nothing to fear from death. I strongly need urgent advice  on inviting her to islam and time is running short. And good materials are useful.

Jazak allahu khair

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmah tullah

02-10-2009 @ 6:54 AM    Notify Admin about this post
ibn Ahmad Maher ibn Ahmad (U.S.A.)
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Bismillaah Al-Hamdulillaah

May Allaah guide your grandmother to the correct Islam.

Go through these links: [Do you worship The Creator?] [A Sincere letter to the People of the Scriptures] [Your Creator alone has the right to be worshipped] [The status of Jesus in Islam]  [Islam is the religion of all the Prophets] [Learn about the Messengers and how they all came with the same message - "single out your Lord with each and every act of worship"] [Misconceptions explained] [Testimonials]

Subhanak Allaahuma wa bihamdika ash-hadu anlaa illaaha illa anta astaghfiruka wa atubu ilayk  

If I said anything correct, then it is from Allaah (subhanahu wa taa'ala), and if I erred, then that is from me and shaytan.  

02-10-2009 @ 6:23 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Aboo Haaroon Husayn Ahmad ibn Jamal (West Palm Beach, FL USA)
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The site was made especially for non-Muslims, you can go through the site and find some beneficial articles to email for your grandmother to read inshaa-Allaah.

May Allaah guide your grandmother to Islaam.

24-10-2009 @ 9:02 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Mariam bint vicente (Bournemouth, United Kingdom)
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Joined: Jul 2008
Assalamu alaikoum wa rahmatullah

I have gone through the same experience and I can understand your fustration. May Allaah make it easy for you and guide her to Islaam Aameen.

Alhamdulillah she is able to read despite her age,ma shaa Allah.

My grand mother was very tired to read during her last days. I bought a MP3 and I recorded lectures about tawheed and basics of Islaam. If you grandmother speaks English, that is great! mashaa Allah. There is many  lectures you can download, even recordings of conversions to Islaam in Islaam

I also sent her a letter explaining to her how to say La illaaha illaah Allaah before dying, so she could have it in case she wanted to say it. She did say it, but she died upon Christian rituals, Allaahu Allam, I did what I could.

I personally find listening to lectures very inspiring. you can pray salatul stikhara before chosing the ones to record in the mp3.

May Allaah guide her Aameen

05-11-2010 @ 9:07 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Damilola Sadiq ibn Owodunni (Lagos, Nigeria || Eastern Province, KSA)
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Joined: Jul 2007
How's your grandmother akhee? May Allah guide the non-Muslims to Islaam.

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