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Umm.Hijrah
14-07-2005 @ 4:08 PM    Notify Admin about this post
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بسم آلله آرحمن آرحيم

Wa Salaatu wa salaam ?allaa rasulilaahi ajmaeen,
As-Salaamu ?alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakatuhu,

Can someone please inform me as to the rights of a host over his guest and if at all any exist?

Alhamdulilaah, I was able to access information on the guest over the host, however if there is a book or an article(s) that can concisely give me information on the first and/or latter, I would truly welcome that.

Barakallaahu feekum wa hayaakum Allaah.
  







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Umm.Rizqin.Rosinah
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Sahih Muslim (The Book Pertaining to Judicial Decisions )
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CHAPTER: ENTERTAINMENT OF THE GUEST  

No. 4286           

          

Abd Shuraib al-Adawi reported: My eare listened and my eye saw when Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) spoke and said: He who believes In Allaah and theeafter should show respect to the guest even with utmost kindness and courtesy. They said: Messenger of Allaah, what is this utmost kindness and courtesy? He replied: It is for a day and a night. Hospitality extends for three days, and what is beyond that is a Sadaqa for him; and he who believes in Allaah and the Hereafter should say something good or keep quiet.

          

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No. 4287           

          

Abu Shuriah al-Khuza'i reported Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) as saying: (The period of the entertainment of a guest is three days, and utmost kindness and courtesy is for a day and a night. =" It is not permissible for a Muslim to stay with, his brother until he makes him sinful. They said: Messenger of Allaah, how he would make him sinful? He (the Prophet) said: He stays with him (so long) that nothing is left with him to entertain him.

          

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No. 4288           

          

Sa'id al-Maqburi reported: I heard Abu Shuraih al-Khuzill saying: My ears heard and my eyes saw and my mind retained it, when Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) spok this, and he then narrated the hadith and made mention of this:" It is not permissible for any one of you to stay with his brother until he makes him sinful."

     
     
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No. 4289           

          

'Uqba b. Amir reported: We said to Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam): You send us out and we come to the people who do not give us hospitality, so what is your opinion? Thereupon Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) said: If you come to the people who order for you what is befitting a guest, accept it; but if they do not. take from them what befits them to give to a guest.




  Honouring the Guests with Islaamic Hospitality (7 CDs)                            Date Published: 05.05.05 source : TROID

Honouring the Guests with Islaamic Hospitality
al-Adabul-Mufrad [The Incomparable Manners and Morals of the Messenger] of Imaam al-Bukhaaree, Section: Honouring the Guest  (with excerpts from 41 ahaadeeth on the Excellence, Blessings and Virtues of Eating Together by Shaykh Yahyaa al-Haajoree)

Speakers: Aboo Tasneem Daawood Adeeb

Contents:

    * How Should We Honour Our Guests (2 CDs)
    * The Life of this World is Nothing but Play and Amusement,
      Best is the Home in the Hereafter
    * Hospitality Lasts for Three Days (2 CDs)
    * The Excellence, Blessings and Virtues of Eating Together
    * Knocking Down Obstacles Towards Getting Married (2 CDs)

An often overlooked topic given little importance amongst the Muslims. The virtues and in some cases, the obligation of honouring the guests, it's connection to eemaan and the many good, Islaamic etiquettes of being a host and the hosted.


Wallaahu A'lam .

Umm.Hijrah
15-07-2005 @ 9:53 AM    Notify Admin about this post
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Barakallaahu Feekee wa jazakhallaahu khairan.

Laa ma'buda bi haqqun illaallaah, wa ghayrullaah in 'ubida fabibaTil.
Al qawlul mufeed.

wasim.ahmed
15-08-2005 @ 2:51 PM    Notify Admin about this post
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Assalaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullaah ,

What are the manners of visiting brothers?      

http://www.salafitalk.net/st/viewmessages.cfm?Forum=11&Topic=2236

BaarakAllaahu feekum,

wassalaamu 'alaykum.





Abu 'Abdullaah   Waseem Ahmad ibn
'Abd Al Raheem Alhindee

Moosaa
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wa 'alaykumus-salaamu wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh.

From the rights of the host:

* Isti'thaan, the guests do not enter nor look into his house except after seeking and obtaining his permission.

* That they give him salaams when entering his house.

* That the guests do not sit in his takrimah (his special seat) without his permission, due to the hadeeth: (( And no one sits in his takrimah in his house without his permission )).

* That they do not lead the prayer in his house except with his permission, due to the same hadeeth: (( And a man is not to be led in prayer in his house except with his permission )).

* That they do not cause him any harm, either by staying too long, or by insulting or embarrassing him due to the generality of the hadeeth (( There is no harm and there is no reciprocating harm )).

* That his honor is protected and he is advised about any shortcomings that become apparent, due to the generality of the hadeeth: (( The Deen is Naseehah )).

And Allaah knows best.

Moosaa ibn John Richardson

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سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك
أشهد أن لا إله إلا أنت
أستغفرك وأتوب إليك

Umm.Rizqin.Rosinah
21-08-2005 @ 4:43 AM    Notify Admin about this post
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On asking permission to enter


sahih muslim

quote:

  Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri, may Allah be pleased with him, reported:
I was sitting in Medina in the company of the Ansar when Abu Musa came trembling with fear. We said to him: What is the matter? He said: 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) sent for me. l went to him and paid him salutation thrice at (his) door but he did not respond, so I came back. Thereupon he ('Umar) said: What prevented you from turning up? I said: I did come to you and paid salutation at your door three times but I was not given any response, so I came back as Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) has said: When anyone of you seeks permission three times and he is not granted permission, he should come back.



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  Abu Musa Al-Ash'ari, may Allah be pleased with him, reported:
Abu Musa went to 'Umar bin Al-Khattab and greeted him by saying: Al-Salamu 'Alaikum, here is 'Abdullah bin Qais, but he did not permit him (to get in). He (Abu Musa Al-Ash'ari) again greeted him with Al-Salamu 'Alaikum and said: Here is Abu Musa but he ('Umar) did not permit him (to get in). He again said: Al-Salamu 'Alaikum, (and said) here is Al-Ash'ari, (then receiving no response he came back). He ('Umar) said: Bring him back to me, bring him back to me. So he went there (in the presence of 'Umar) and he said to him: Abu Musa, what made you go back, while we were busy in some work? He said: I heard Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) saying: Permission should be sought thrice. And if you are permitted, (then get in), otherwise go back.



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  Jabir bin 'Abdullah, may Allah be pleased with them, reported:
I came to Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and called at his door (seeking permission), whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Who is it? I said: It is I. Thereupon he (the Holy Prophet) came out saying: It is I, it is I (meaning he disapproved saying It is I).



  
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Sahl bin Sa'd Al-Sa'idi, may Allah be pleased with him, reported:
A person peeped through the hole of the door of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him), and at that time Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) had with him a scratching instrument with which he had been scratching his head. When Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) saw him, he said: If I knew that you had been peeping through the door, I would have thrust that into your eyes, and Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Seeking permission is needed as a protection against unlawful looking.



The guests who are asking permission to enter ,should knock on the door gently.Anas Radhiallaahu 'anhu narrated " Verily the doors of the houses of Rasulullah salallahu alayhe wasallam were being knocked( by the visitors) using the fingernails  "(Al-Bukhari in Al-Adaab Al-Mufrad and shaykh  Al-Albani declared it saheeh ).









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