|muslimah03||-- 10-07-2009 @ 3:33 PM|
From A Forwarded Email........................
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullah
Imaam Aboo Haatim Muhammad ibn Hibbaan -rahimahullaah- (d.354H) said in
'Rawdatul-`Uqalaa. ' (p.246-247):
" A MENTION OF THE RECOMMENDATION OF ACCEPTING THE APOLOGY/EXCUSE OF ONE WHO APOLOGISES.
...So what is binding upon the person of intellect, if his brother apologises to him for a previous offence, or for falling short of his rights, is that he should accept his apology, and treat him as one who has not committed any sin; since if a person has come to him to excuse himself, and he does not accept it, then I fear that he will not be permitted to drink from the Vast Reservoir (al-Hawd) with the chosen Messenger ( ııı ıııı ıııı ı ııı); and whoever is guilty of falling short in any regard, then it is binding that he excuses himself with his brother.
And Muhammad ibn `Abdillaah ibn Zanjee al-Baghdaadee stated in a line of poetry:
'If your brother apologises to you one day - for falling short, with the apology of a brother who acknowledges the wrong he has done; then preserve him from suffering harshness from you, and pardon him; for pardoning is the disposition of every free person'."
From Abu Talha Dawood Burbank (May Allah reward him with good)
And Allah Knows Best.
Wa'alaykum assalam wa rahmatullah,
West London Dawah
Was Salaamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh,
Jameelah Iman Muhammad bint Vasquez
Allaah The Exalted Says:
"And seek help in patience and As-Salat and truly, it is extremely heavy and hard except for Al-Khashi'un." Surah al-Baqarah:45