Topic: Family Issue


talibdeenrashad    -- 19-11-2002 @ 12:00 AM
  In the Name of Allaah,the Beneficent,the Merciful. All Praise is due to Allah, and may the prayers be upon the one who was a mercy for the 'Alameen, and upon his family, and companions, and send peace upon alla of them.

I need one one the students to ask one of the Shaykhs a question for me?
I have a situation were I have found gay magazines in the possession of one of my children. Also last night I caught him on one of these gay web sites. He said that the magazines were not his and that he wasn't on the web sites although I caught him in the act. I need to know how I should deal with him. I have adviced him with the Al-Qur'an was-Sunnah. I don't want to do something that may make his situation worst than it already is by being harsh which was my first reaction. This is a crime that I hate very much and its in my home. Need Advice!
Jazakullah Khair Barakallah fee


umm_abdillah    -- 19-11-2002 @ 12:00 AM
  Assalam Aleikum

Brother, May Allah help you with this situation.  And may Allah make Imaan beloved to your child, and beaufity it in his heart and may Allah make him hate the fusooq and disobedience, and May Allah make him of the rashideen.  Ameen.

I just wanted to suggest that you put a filtering software on your computer.  You can download a free program at www.we-blocker.net.  It's an easy program and alhamdulillah it blocks haraam sites.  You select words which are haraam (ex. gay,18yrs,model,...)or any words that can lead to haraam and any site that has such a word gets blocked.  You can also monitor which sites were visited.

May Allah help you and protect your family.  Ameen.

Assalam Aleikum


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